What is love

        I seem to have passed the age of discussing love, but this vocabulary has not disappeared from my life dictionary. Novels and TV dramas all talk about the love between family members, experiencing the ups and downs of love in oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea. And I prefer to talk about love in the eyes of Eileen Chang, Lin Huiyin, and Yang Jiang, which represents boldness, fearlessness, recklessness, and long-lasting love. Perhaps their expression of love is full of idealized and absurd interpretations, but this does not affect my admiration for them.

                What is love?

        Some people say: Love is a game, chasing after each other. Some people fall and don't want to get up again, and from then on, they have no smiles; Some people say that love is a kind of temptation, and some people cannot resist temptation and let their youthful impulses lead them to despair; Some people say that love is like a moth drawn to a flame, fearless and persistent. Some people would rather be covered in wounds and pursue happiness, never to return home again; Some people say that love is like a mirror, gazing at each other. Some people have detestable faces, feel their detestable features, and are shattered from then on.

        Does love really only cause pain, disappointment, and annoyance?

        In fact, although love is a game, when you fall and the people around you reach out their hands, the game will not stop; Although love is a temptation, it can also leave unforgettable memories for a lifetime; Even if love is like a moth drawn to a flame, the moment it blends into the flame, from then on, only you jump in the flames; Even though love is a mirror, when you gaze at each other, some people are sweet and lovely, and feel their sweetness, the two begin to admire each other.

        Think back, have you ever had love? Even in a moment. The standard of measurement is actually very simple. Have you ever had the most primitive impulse, the most straightforward expression, and the purest inner self for him or her? If so, congratulations, you have confirmed love.

        Some people say that love is the patent of young people. After entering marriage and living together, the initial love will gradually transform into family affection, and from then on, they will raise their eyebrows together and support each other. In fact, mutual support is also a kind of love. Looking at each other's aging faces, from strong and powerful holding hands to mutual support, what remains unchanged is the knowing smiles in each other's eyes.

        Love is an eternal topic in life, and everyone has a different understanding of love. There is no right or wrong. Try to feel it from a different perspective, don't let yourself get trapped in pain, frustration, and troubles.

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