06.2020 Story
After reading "you just look hard"
Far Eastern International Bank / Yang Fenni
What did you do during the four days of spring break? Maybe a relief trip? Maybe studying hard and preparing for the exam? Do everything well, afraid to watch the electric, slide mobile phones, aimlessly pass the time.
In order to motivate my intelligent but not hardworking son, I designed a competition - I had to read a book and write down my experience, while he had to complete the study papers and review the exam, and the winner would be rewarded naturally. Although I'm not aiming to win, I still read the first book in dangdang.com - "you just seem to work hard".
The author Li Shanglong is a writer, lecturer and director in mainland China. He holds several posts and has rich experience. This book narrates the ups and downs of the author's life from his military entrance examination to his dropout, as well as the true and gripping stories. There are many good sentences in the book, as follows:
1、 Aimless travel can only be called roaming; aimless learning just seems to work hard. Learning without purpose is a show, and efforts without effect are just a waste of time. It can be seen from this that only by setting goals and taking the first step and continuous review and improvement can achievements be achieved.
2、 Your efforts should be worthy of your ambition. If we don't work hard enough, all our ideals will be lost and turned into unrealistic talks.
3、 You are not good enough. Are you irreplaceable. There are two ways: one is to do what others don't want to do; the other is to do what others can do better.
Looking at this book at my age, the most beneficial thing is to be closer to the ideas of the young people now. My daughter, a senior, has always been very clever. Which of the materials began to change after the sophomore year, often arguing with us some self righteous reasons, sometimes even for the sake of opposition. She often said, "I grew up with the ability to judge right and wrong. I am no longer like a child. I don't know anything and am at the mercy of others. "I always felt sad before. I worked hard to pull up my older daughter. How can I go to university is different. After reading this book, I found that I am also like those loving parents in the book. In order to avoid their children walking too many wrong paths, I hope they can get a public office and find a stable job. However, young people have their own ideals and aspirations. Even if they fail to make it, they will tell themselves, "at least I have tried.". As parents, we only need to guide the lights when they are lost; when they want to fly, we can support and encourage them silently.
In addition to encouraging young people to pursue their dreams bravely, the author also tells young people that in the process of pursuing dreams, they can't do without money as backing. Only by "seeking survival first, can we talk about ideals". Taking a host as an example, the author shows that he likes to travel around the world, but he will return to work and earn the cost of the next trip. "The real warrior is to adjust the relationship between work and travel." this sentence enables young people who pursue their ideals and aspirations to have the right values - first employment, then employment, to talk about dreams.
The author's view of love also resonates with me. He said, "love is an arrow that will not turn back. "I also think the broken mirror is hard to be round. Even if it sticks, it will still leave traces. It's better to put it down. Time is the best healing agent. No one cannot do without the imprint is engraved on my heart. It will dilute the memories that are unforgettable and take away the most imperfect stories. As long as you still believe in love, there will be a right person in the future. When you are right, you will meet after you are reborn.
The author said, "don't marry someone you love too much. "It's the same thing with our young age, whether we should marry" the one who loves me "or" the one who loves me ". I also firmly believe that" marriage is the grave of love ", because after marriage, all vows and pledges are replaced by firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar tea, and the once vigorous stories are all plain. Only by sublimating love into kinship can we hold hands for life.
In addition, the author analyzes the workplace and society. He thinks there are too many criticisms and reproaches in the society. What is really needed is to put forward solutions after criticism so as to make the society more harmonious and progressive. In the competitive workplace, most people are not hard enough, but jealous of others' achievements. People who stand out often become the target. How to be wise and protect yourself becomes a must learn lesson. In addition to ignoring the right and wrong of people and the stigma, keeping a kind heart will naturally attract friends who are as kind and like-minded as themselves to work together and grow up together.
Finally, a sentence in the abridged book is encouraged by the readers: "a person's evening time determines what kind of person he is in his life.". In the daytime, everyone is busy with work and study, which is almost the same. In the evening, some people are busy brushing their circle of friends and chasing after plays; some are busy playing video games; while some are preparing for tomorrow's work, or using their time to learn English and enrich their new knowledge, which naturally makes a big difference over time. Let's make good use of the time in the evening, study hard, and make each other better and better.
In order to motivate my intelligent but not hardworking son, I designed a competition - I had to read a book and write down my experience, while he had to complete the study papers and review the exam, and the winner would be rewarded naturally. Although I'm not aiming to win, I still read the first book in dangdang.com - "you just seem to work hard".
1、 Aimless travel can only be called roaming; aimless learning just seems to work hard. Learning without purpose is a show, and efforts without effect are just a waste of time. It can be seen from this that only by setting goals and taking the first step and continuous review and improvement can achievements be achieved.
2、 Your efforts should be worthy of your ambition. If we don't work hard enough, all our ideals will be lost and turned into unrealistic talks.
3、 You are not good enough. Are you irreplaceable. There are two ways: one is to do what others don't want to do; the other is to do what others can do better.
Looking at this book at my age, the most beneficial thing is to be closer to the ideas of the young people now. My daughter, a senior, has always been very clever. Which of the materials began to change after the sophomore year, often arguing with us some self righteous reasons, sometimes even for the sake of opposition. She often said, "I grew up with the ability to judge right and wrong. I am no longer like a child. I don't know anything and am at the mercy of others. "I always felt sad before. I worked hard to pull up my older daughter. How can I go to university is different. After reading this book, I found that I am also like those loving parents in the book. In order to avoid their children walking too many wrong paths, I hope they can get a public office and find a stable job. However, young people have their own ideals and aspirations. Even if they fail to make it, they will tell themselves, "at least I have tried.". As parents, we only need to guide the lights when they are lost; when they want to fly, we can support and encourage them silently.
In addition to encouraging young people to pursue their dreams bravely, the author also tells young people that in the process of pursuing dreams, they can't do without money as backing. Only by "seeking survival first, can we talk about ideals". Taking a host as an example, the author shows that he likes to travel around the world, but he will return to work and earn the cost of the next trip. "The real warrior is to adjust the relationship between work and travel." this sentence enables young people who pursue their ideals and aspirations to have the right values - first employment, then employment, to talk about dreams.
The author's view of love also resonates with me. He said, "love is an arrow that will not turn back. "I also think the broken mirror is hard to be round. Even if it sticks, it will still leave traces. It's better to put it down. Time is the best healing agent. No one cannot do without the imprint is engraved on my heart. It will dilute the memories that are unforgettable and take away the most imperfect stories. As long as you still believe in love, there will be a right person in the future. When you are right, you will meet after you are reborn.
The author said, "don't marry someone you love too much. "It's the same thing with our young age, whether we should marry" the one who loves me "or" the one who loves me ". I also firmly believe that" marriage is the grave of love ", because after marriage, all vows and pledges are replaced by firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar tea, and the once vigorous stories are all plain. Only by sublimating love into kinship can we hold hands for life.
In addition, the author analyzes the workplace and society. He thinks there are too many criticisms and reproaches in the society. What is really needed is to put forward solutions after criticism so as to make the society more harmonious and progressive. In the competitive workplace, most people are not hard enough, but jealous of others' achievements. People who stand out often become the target. How to be wise and protect yourself becomes a must learn lesson. In addition to ignoring the right and wrong of people and the stigma, keeping a kind heart will naturally attract friends who are as kind and like-minded as themselves to work together and grow up together.
Finally, a sentence in the abridged book is encouraged by the readers: "a person's evening time determines what kind of person he is in his life.". In the daytime, everyone is busy with work and study, which is almost the same. In the evening, some people are busy brushing their circle of friends and chasing after plays; some are busy playing video games; while some are preparing for tomorrow's work, or using their time to learn English and enrich their new knowledge, which naturally makes a big difference over time. Let's make good use of the time in the evening, study hard, and make each other better and better.
