It would be better to live in oblivion than to love in despair

        There is a saying in Zhuangzi, great master: "when the spring is dry, the fish are on the land, the fish are on the water, and the fish are on the water. It's better to forget about the Jianghu. When the spring is dried up, the fish can only lie at the bottom of the spring and spray each other to nourish each other for the rest of their lives. In this way, it is better to get out of trouble and return to nature as soon as possible, swim in the world as usual, forget about the broad Jianghu and get more freedom.

        A few days ago, I went out to dinner with my colleagues, and I mentioned the allusion of "mutual help and mutual help". He told me that he had read a passage: "today, I am close to each other; I am close to each other, and I forget the Jianghu." it was a few words, but it fully demonstrated the mystery of the use of words and deep reflection on human love.
        
         In terms of the use of words, "close" and "close" have the same pronunciation, but they have different meanings when used in this sentence. One is to tell that the love is blazing, the other is to describe that the karma has been exhausted, but the same pronunciation describes different situations. In terms of the creation of words, it's really brilliant. I'm afraid that only "the east mountain is raining and the west mountain is" clear ", the Tao is not" clear ", but there is" love ". The sentence "is comparable.
        
         The original meaning of "help each other" is: fish in the dried up pond moisten each other with their own saliva in order to protect their lives. In the sentence of "close relationship today, help each other", it can be interpreted as that when they get together, they try their best to help their loved ones and achieve each other. This is a kind of selfless love that is willing to sacrifice itself. Such a sincere love is the reason why "heaven is sentimental and heaven is old".
        
         However, it's true that sacrifice for love is great, but love and desire are often connected, and it's hard to avoid paying for return. Such love is as strong and mellow as old wine, but it has pressure and burden. Especially when one side wants to go, the "desire for love" in those days becomes today's "desire for evil" in those days. How many love murders in social news come from this. Don't forget that "love and hate and hatred" is not an independent existence. Only love can produce hatred.
        
         When the fate is close and sparse, or even to the end, what is needed is a transcendental sentiment, which is a kind of relief that can put down the heart of possession, forget what has been paid, so that the other party can have a broader space, leisurely travel to achieve their own life. Therefore, it is said that "one day, we will forget the Jianghu". The Jianghu implies a broader world, and that "forgetting" is to throw away all the perseverance, let the original return to the original, let the future return to the future. It's a kind of indifference that the boat passes through the water without any trace. It's also a kind of open-minded that "looking back to the bleak place, going back, no wind and rain, and merciless". It's also a kind of letting go of "living in a place where you can't live". When love can be like this, it can be like glue when it's close to you, and when it's close to you, it doesn't have to face each other with bad words, or even five steps of blood flow!
        
         I have become more and more obedient for many years. I have seen a lot of things, such as the sighs of "the morning is like the green silk and the evening is like the snow", and I have been back in the middle of the night. Nothing in the world can be permanent. The reason why life is bitter is that we always want to master the eternal world and change with limited life and ability. There is this greed, this hatred, this obsession, so there is this suffering. It's hard to learn Taoism's "carefree". The realm of "easy to disappear, hard to do without action" is not something that ordinary people can think through. It's more difficult to learn the "emptiness" of Buddhism. You can't do all the achievements, promotions and bonuses you encounter in your work, regardless of whether you want to do it. That kind of mind that "all things have a way to do, such as dreams and visions, dew and electricity, should be done like a view" in the world, common people like me, can only aspire to it, but can't do it. What you can do is "forget", no matter whether you are happy or sad or negative. I'm still a loser. I can always hide all these entanglements in the dark corner of my heart in a short time, so that I can face the next rising day of the sun again. Only in the most lonely time of my life, I can take these memories out of the dust cover and sigh the passing years like water.