01.2019 Office Talk
No cross No crown
Far Eastern New Century Corporation / Liu Zuliang
Life is your own, no one can help you live; life is only once, never to come back; to write down for yourself what kind of movement of life, look at what kind of attitude to face life! Whether it's a mediocre "idle youth, empty sorrow" or a full "I'm not living in vain" (MacArthur's Prayer for the Son) hangs in suspense.
A few days ago, friends complained that their children entered an endless "relaxation mode" after they finished their college entrance exams. They played hand games and video games all day long. They didn't do anything serious. Their parents couldn't stand their lazy attitude. But nowadays, children have many sources of information, so they often let their husband and wife stop talking about it. Children are reluctant to think about any diligence, ideals and goals in life. They just want to live without pressure. They don't care about mediocrity and don't want to take responsibility.
A few days ago, an old subordinate came to me and asked me to help him find a "good" job opportunity. The young friend was under 33 years old and had changed six jobs in 10 years after graduation. The average job was less than two years. The reason why he left his job was either that he was too tired, that he complained about the low salary, or that he thought the job was too boring. In his memory, the young man was full of wisdom, but he only acted on his intuition. Although he could do all the work he handed in, he only paid attention to doing it, not pursuing to do it well.
Such children and young people are not uncommon around us. They think that they represent the values and thinking patterns of the new era. They fear that they will suffer if they are too sober and serious. However, in my opinion, this is a kind of "mixed world" outlook on life, which is not only indifferent to the surroundings, extreme selfishness and self, but also insensitive to the sophistication of the world.
Imagine, if you pay the same amount as other colleagues in your department, when you get a raise or promotion, why do you get a higher salary or a higher position? If there is only one password and one instruction from the executive director of an action, what is the difference between "human" and "robot"? What is your value? How can a supervisor equate you with diligence and hard work? If the quality of this year's work is the same as last year's, and the skills of this year's work are the same as in the past, why should the company help you raise your salary? How dare a business without performance make extravagant contributions? How can an engineer who makes mistakes in three days talk about performance? If you were in charge, what kind of person would you promote?
Young people who are willing to commonplace often use commonplace, commonplace and commonplace as shields to hide their cowardice, fear of trying and fear of failure. But how dull life is!
According to legend, there is an ancient tribe in the deep mountains at the junction of Sichuan and Tibet, which has lived in peace and tranquility from sunrise to sunset. Until a generation alternation, the new Sheikh has a very good eye and hopes that the next generation of the tribe will have a look at the outside world and even burst into a new world. He said to those young people who are willing to go out and rush, "Don't worry about going out and rushing. I will take care of your parents, wives and children. I will never let you worry about the future." "Several energetic young people expressed their willingness to try. Before they set out, the chieftain gave them two brocades, each with three words, in addition to giving each of them a piece of entanglement. He said, "When you go out, you will inevitably encounter difficulties. When you feel hopeless and helpless, you will open your first brocade bag and there will be instructions in it." When you reach the age of forty-five, you should return to your hometown and share your knowledge and experience with the people of your clan. Then you can open the second bag. "
Young people left their hometown with their bags on their backs. When they faced great difficulties in life, they opened their first brocade bag and found that the three words on it were "Don't be afraid".
Decades later, these young people have reached the age of forty-five one after another, and many of them have made good achievements in different fields. When they returned home according to the contract, the chieftain had passed away. They opened a second brocade sack in front of the chieftain's tomb. The three words on it were "Don't regret".
In the years of growing up, we will encounter all kinds of difficulties. In the most difficult times, young people should bear in mind "don't be afraid" and don't be afraid of anything. Even if there is only a glimmer of hope, don't give up. If they can persevere in the end, they will come out of the way. Such an attitude is called "do your best".
When you are young, you are most afraid of looking backwards and fearing the end. Such people are doomed to a mediocre life. You should have the courage to try and start, and do it boldly whenever possible and opportunity arises. In my life, I despise those who like to say, "If I had... Now I will... "People.
When I traveled to Shanxi a few years ago, I heard a thought-provoking story. Legend has it that there is a temple on Mount Wutai in Shanxi Province. From the stone road leading to the temple to the statue of Bodhisattva in the temple, they are all taken from the granite at the foot of the mountain. One night, the slated granite pointed to the granite carved as a Bodhisattva and complained loudly: "Also from the foot of the mountain, why should we be laid on the ground for trampling; and how can you sit high on the altar and accept the worship of the believers?" It's so unfair! Where is God! "
My brothers! The granite sculpted as a stone Buddha sighed and said, "You only saw me revered and honored on the stage, but you never thought that each of you (the slate) only received four knives, and I was cut by thousands of knives to achieve today!" "
Yes, no fear, no regret, courage to bear, a thousand knives start to become Buddha.
